Today lets get into the reason why people succeed and go beyond their goals, and I think its all about mastering your attitude. Its not enough to just be POSITIVE, coaches are looking for players who can bring a SUPER POSITIVE attitude to the table and help their teammates get better. I was just talking to a D1 coach today and he was saying how he is seeing more teams divided then ever, because of POOR attitudes from the players. This has a lot to do with coaches going after the best players and letting their attitude slide or thinking they will be able to change the players, but then reality set in and its too late. The first thing you have to do to master your attitude is ACT like you have a positive attitude NOW, start today by waking up everyday and rededicating yourself to having a positive attitude, about your game, and your future. Stop COMPLAINING, this is the stuff one, because I have found myself to be a victim of this, we get in a habit of doing it all the time and we aren’t aware of it, so start being aware every time you do it, then refocus on something really important. It was stuff for me at first, but once you get in a habit of doing it you should be fine, be stuff on yourself. Next, tell your friends and family what you are trying to do, to get them on the same page with you, you can’t have people around you talking about negative things or complaining, watch what happens, you will fine a lot of people only talk to you, because they want someone to WHINE to! The best way to deal with these people is to tell them to get on board with what you are trying to become or get AWAY, if its a family member limit your time with them, this can be hard,FREE TENNIS SCHOLARSHIPS but be selfish for the most important person in the world, YOU! This get you started on your way to mastering your attitude and also making getting that scholarship a piece of CAKE!
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